Being a girl from an Asian country, it is pretty common to see girls using cottons/ normal clothes to hide the marks of her period from everyone.
Every now and then, you will get to see some or the other girl being victim of Urinary Tract Infection commonly known as UTI. It is pretty obvious that nothing but their basic hygiene is the root cause of the same.
Not only due to high poverty rate, but also due to lack of proper education, 4 out of 5 girls in these countries, are not using sanitary pads. Where the high price of sanitary napkins is one of the main causes people prefer using any random clothes and reuse the same, on the other hand maximum of the population thinks using a pad is unsanctified. Their spiritual belief says, if a girl is on her period, she is cursed for those few days. Their right to enter holy places like temple, mosque, church is compromised.
First of all, we all need to know what ‘Menstruation’ is. A period, or menstruation, is the shedding of the lining of the womb. Women have a period approximately every 28 days; however, there is some variation in this cycle, ranging from a 24-day to a 35-day cycle. A period is part of the woman’s menstrual cycle. It is a sign that the body is functioning normally. If you do not have the cycle on time, that is an issue. Throwing out the impure blood of your body does not anyhow make you impure.
Now, as we have already spoke about what a period is, let’s go to maintaining the feminine hygiene. Maintaining your basic hygiene is important for every single person, including every woman. Especially on these days, a woman needs to keep herself clean. Using a normal cotton or clothes, could be dangerous and infectious. Sanitary pads are not purely made of cotton but they’re made of cellulose gel. Napkins are made to absorb wetness. That is why aside from cotton, they also contain rayon, a synthetic fiber. Absorbing the wetness is important to protect yourself from dangerous virus/ bacteria. In order to protect yourself, it is basic right for each and every woman to maintain their hygiene and use the sanitary pads.
Now, let’s talk about sex. Having sex with your partner is completely your choice. It is not a mandate, but just a physical need. Having a safe sex is certainly important, not only to avoid unwanted pregnancy, but to avoid diseases like aids. And so, condoms come into the picture. Though, study says, it is not always 100% safe to have sex with a condom, however, up-to some point, it saves you.
Hence, there are various kind of condoms available in market from low range to high range. Different flavors, dotted, extra dotted and so the lost goes on.
If one wishes, they can stop themselves from having sex, but a woman, can not hold herself from having period. Pleasure is necessary, not mandate. But bleeding on the right time of every month, is not a choice, but an important mandate.
Recent study shows that Govt. has deprecated the taxes on Sanitary napkins, but the MRPs on the branded sanitary napkins still read the price inclusive of all taxes. With today’s advanced technology, we can certainly make pads much cheaper for those who can not afford to buy such expensive napkins. Study shows, period is most expensive for low and medium budget family. Many hospitals are giving out condoms for free in order to avoid health hazards, but we hardly see anyone giving out free tampon to the women who badly needs it. If you can not maintain your health and hygiene, soon enough you will lose the ability of having pleasure as well.
Before writing this blog, I took review of few people on this. Here we go:
Himanshu Singh, an aspirant for civil services says:
“Sex is a choice menstruation is not. Sex comes up with consent of two people and on the other hand menstruation is not a choice. Different countries have different age limits to officially indicate you of being an adult and can have sex. But if you are born as a girl child, you must deal with your periods. Condoms used for having safe sex is available at rates of your desire.
Luxury tonight- ultra thin
Flavored? Oh? Which one for tonight?
Dotted or extra dotted?
Or just a “nirodh”(govt. issuing condoms to health centers for villagers available at cheaper rates).Whereas on the other hand napkins are sold at higher rates.
The Ministry of Health and Family Welfare has introduced a scheme for promotion of menstrual hygiene among adolescent girls in the age group of 10-19 year in rural areas. The major objectives of the scheme are:
• To increase access to and use of high-quality sanitary napkins to adolescent girls in rural areas.
•To dispose them safely in an environment friendly nature.
The scheme was initially implemented in 2011 in 107 selected districts in 17 States wherein a pack of six sanitary napkins called “Free days” was provided to rural adolescent girls for Rs. 6. From 2014 onwards, funds are now being provided to States/UTs under National Health Mission for decentralized procurement of sanitary napkins packs for provision to rural adolescent girls at a subsidized rate of Rs 6 for a pack of 6 napkins.Yet I wonder how these napkins will be efficient enough for the women of our country as still the most of our population is rural.
On the other hand, high quality napkin manufacturers are increasing the rates drastically for their own profits.”
Juvin, my co-writer says:
“In other countries, the price of tampons or sanitary napkins is not an issue but in India. However, in India also there are too many options available but when it comes about the quality, it’s certainly a pinch in the pocket. Sex is optional and so the protection as well. But period is a painful habit that all women have to adhere to without any option. Hence the price should be at least half of it and of course without reducing the quality as it relates to women hygiene.”
Riya, my co-writer says:
“Sex is a choice. If you are of legal age, and want to have it, it’s your choice completely. But menstruation is a natural process in girls. That’s not a choice. Neither you can change it. You want it or not, you have to go through it.”
Samar, the admin of this page says:
“As the govt of India has already removed the taxes from the Sanitary napkins, ideally it should go down, but as Pratiksha said earlier, instead of going down, it went up (for obvious reasons). I think there are somethings, which can be kept apart from politics and business. There are multiple countries, which offers free sanitary napkins, condoms and other necessities for free. I think it’s time we should start raising our voices for these basic needs when asked for votes. Coming to a personal point of view, There are multiple countries, which gives paid/unpaid leaves for menstruation, It’s a painful time for all the women. We should support them emotionally and in all the ways possible. They deserve it.”
Rhea, who works in MNC says:
Of course the price of sanitary napkins shouldn’t be increased.. on the contrary, these should be distributed at a cheaper rate or at no cost, especially in rural areas where women still use unhygienic pieces of clothes. they should be educated about hygiene first. of course money is a factor. people should understand the basic difference about rice and biriyani, one being necessity and the other being luxury.
There are many people who are working on the betterment of women’s hygiene and still somewhere we are lagging it. It’s time, we unite and take a step forward so that every woman lives a healthy life. We all deserve it.
I would personally love to hear from all our readers about how their country is doing about it. So please share your thoughts in the comment section below.
you never really think of what it’s like somewhere else – but this is definitely something to think about and try to help with!
I guess this issue is a global one. It’s just some countries are prioritizing well.
Everyone should come forward and take a step.
This is so sad. Sanitary pads should be handed out just like condoms are or hand out sanitary pads instead of condoms. Your are correct, your menstruation is not a choice it comes rather you like it or not. These women should not be blamed or punished for it.
Exactly. I sometime wonder what is there to be ashamed of it!
Im from the Philippines so I can relate to this. Sanitary pads should be provided!
True. Without any hesitation and charging so much for it, it should be available for every girl.
I have heard and witnessed horrid stories about mensuration in ethnic groups, it’s unbelievable what women are reduced to for what comes natural to them.
It’s just how people look at it. Lack of education is the cause as I have mentioned in my post as well.
I couldn’t agree more. Educating on the importance of proper hygiene is such an important thing regardless of which country you’re considering. It’s crucial for girls to know about their bodies and how to properly take care of them.
Exactly.
this is such a hard topic for people to feel comfortable talking about. thank you for allowing us to discuss these issues.
That is what my point is. I still do not understand, why people are ashamed of discussing something that is natural!
This is so true! It is so sad that sanitary napkins are not being handed out. Women shouldn’t have to resort to using their clothes when they’re menstruating.
True. Especially when it is damaging their own health.
Gratitude I feel for living in a place where those necessities are not a problem to get. But we for sure need to remind themselves of other people in more distant from civilization places.
Glad to hear that you are from such a place. Well, as I stated, it seemed to be a global issue. Some places are just exceptions.
I am from India and I can relate to what you are saying. I think its improving in urban areas but in rural areas and villages it is a big issue. We should take initiative as citizens to go forth and spread the awareness.
Yes. People who are availing the benefits and are aware of the concern, should come forward.
It is very nice of you to write about mensuration and the stigma attached with it. Female hygiene specially related to periods is not talked about much and it’s great that people are talking about it and companies are making products around it.
I hope more people come forward cause only talking about it will not help.
Thank you for your thoughts on the topic. I’ve always believed sanitary pads should be made more available as condoms are in the US. Just saying
Well, if you do not mind, I would love to know more about this system in US. Honestly I thought that it’s a better situation there.
It’s unfortunate that this is also a case in Africa and funny enough, NGOs and well wishers are championing the movement more than the government is to ensure girls are provided with sanitary towels.
Well, we have to work more on it and stop depending on Govt. I guess!
You betcha!
I know there is some teaching about UTIs. I had to deal with it a lot with my daughter because she was extremely susceptible. And there were issues because she had kidney reflux too which made those UTIs dangerous because they all lead to kidney infections. Always good to teach more I think.
Certainly! Everyone should be more cautious about it. Due to our regular work, we all need to use public washrooms, hence we all should be aware of more products to ensure our safety.
It is really a shame how expensive sanitary pads can be because many companies want to profit off of it instead of being financially accessible to those who need it.
Certainly everyone thinks of making more and more money. But at some point they should also think about the purpose of selling the product as well. If the product is not accessible to all the people, I dont think it helps.
This is such a great topic to be discussed. In this world where not all parts of the world has an access especially in those remote ares. Goverment should spent their funds protecting womens.
You are right.
I heard recently somewhere,I can’t remember, that India is trying to allow more woman to have pads and tampons for their cycle. I heard that not a lot of woman don’t use them. But maybe that is in the rural areas. I don’t remember the details exactly.
Yes, people are working on it.
Sanitary pads should be for everyone. It’s not right that some women have to suffer without some because of their region I hope things change we take things for granted.
Exactly, not a single woman should suffer.
There should be sanitary pads for everyone. It’s so important thing to have and a must x
Laura
Thanks for sharing!
The world around us is cruel when it comes to women’s health and woman’s right to live a life with dignity and health. It hurts to imagine what girls and women are going through in the countries like India, and many African countries. A post like yours does contribute to bringing an urgency, the awareness how things really are when you live outside a comfortable world of yours.
Asking questions are really pleasant thing if you are not understanding something entirely,
however this paragraph provides nice understanding even.