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To be completely honest, I’ve never heard anything as stupid as the claim that “all men are the same.” That would be like saying “all animals are same” when visiting a zoo. Even if they share qualities, no two souls are ever exactly alike. The point is that this phrase doesn’t and will never apply to any gender and applies to all people—men, women, non-binary, and transgender. Everyone says that every person is unique and has a purpose. This is because we are always different from each other.

Here’s one of the explanations I found on Reddit:

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So scientifically, it’s not possible that “all men are the same.”. Let’s think about it a bit emotionally: “All men are the same.” Why does anyone think all men are the same, in a negative, frustrating way?

Here are some of the reasons for this unscientific, biased, and pseudo-feminist statement:

History of Past Relationships

The phrase “all men are the same” is often uttered in moments of despair, encapsulating the feeling that regardless of individual circumstances, men experience strangely familiar patterns of behavior—be it their pursuit of love, communication style, . or emotional stability—depending on whether they are based on patterns commonly found in past relationships. Any failed relationship seems to be a repeat of the past, causing many individuals to draw generalizations about their experiences and assume that everyone reacts the same. This way, though, it can ignore the combination of each person’s individuality and each person’s essence. While it can be tempting to simplify the issue and blame a collection of men, detailed research shows that not all men fit these molds, but behavioral and emotional response patterns can create déjà vu as an issue. The real issue is not genetic male equality but… one based on an equal partner.

Personal experiences

The notion that “all men are the same” often comes from personal experiences of disappointment and betrayal. When negative encounters with some men are said to be very addictive, it creates an atmosphere of mistrust and frustration. Social discourse that promotes toxic masculinity and perpetuates stereotypes that depict men as emotionally inert or naturally hostile might worsen this view of men. Furthermore, males are frequently portrayed negatively by the media, which reinforces the notion that men’s motives and behaviors are all part of a homogeneous, undifferentiated fabric of cultural origins, life experiences, and personal development that is ignored in favor of each man’s unique personality. In the end, limiting males to a single negative stereotype compromises genuine communication and understanding between the sexes as well as the closeness of human ties.

History of Child Abuse

These generalizations can obscure the nuances of specific causes and experiences, especially when talking about such a delicate subject. While it is undeniable that many child abusers share certain characteristics, it is important to understand that not all men are abusers, and many seek desperately to prevent this horror. This idea has the ability to stifle conversation if it bears the fruition of reinforcing negative preconceptions and helping or preventing help. Instead, in order to create a safe environment for children, we need to look at the underlying social factors that support bullying behavior and prioritize education, empathy, and accountability. By doing so, we can work past simple issues to achieve a more complex understanding of the problem, highlighting the fact that individual decisions and actions do matter in the fight against child abuse.

History of broken family

The phrase “all men are equal” is often uttered by those who suffer from a broken family, where trust and loyalty have been eroded by betrayal or abandonment. This sentiment can overtake repetitive behavior evidence across generations, while fathers and gentlemen may have set resounding examples of disappointment or heartache. In these words, it is easy to generalize, to believe that in the end, absolutely every man will follow the same path of emotional unavailability or infidelity, but it is important to recognize the individuality of each person, even though the scars of the past may mask our thinking. Not all men carry the same burdens or make the same choices, as you know they do. Many different men try to break the cycle by making sense of it in their relationships. By acknowledging these difficult circumstances, we can all foster dialogue that encourages empathy and the possibility of true equality rather than indulging in the narrative that people are repeating the mistakes of their predecessors and continuing the cycle of abuse.

Pseudo-feminism or Misandry

The simplistic claim that “all men are the same” is often made in discussions about gender, especially in the context of misandry or pseudo-feminism. This phrase implies a lack of masculine behavioral characteristics; there is no showing of the blanket, undermining the complexity of personal experience and the emphasis on homogeneous stereotypes. They hazard alienating capability allies and oversimplifying the small realities faced by each man and woman. This technique can divide in preference to rationalize, reinforcing the very structures of misunderstanding and resentment that are looking for to disrupt actual development closer to gender equality. This involves recognizing diversity within individuals, identifying experiences that reflect the diverse elements that make up each person’s identity, and having constructive dialogue beyond reductive labeling.

To conclude the post,

If you’re a girl and you think all men are equal or potential rapists, please make sure “all men” are your father, brother, husband, boyfriend, or anyone else concerned. Imagine them, reading your posts on social media. While this approach relies on many women experiencing harassment or violent experiences, it can produce disturbing conclusions that ignore men’s individual characteristics and positive gender relations. By recognizing that men can have a multitude of behavioral norms, we can move beyond fear and mistrust and foster healthier conversations and relationships. Engaging in dialogue that focuses on the importance of responsibility, education, and compassion is essential in order to build a society of mutual respect where men and women can live together without a shadow of doubt. . . .

References:
OSF.IO
European Proceedings